She Rich Unfiltered

I turned 30 this year. And nobody warns you how vicious that shift from 29 to 30 really is. It’s the age where you start feeling the weight of every choice you’ve made, every version of yourself you’ve left unfinished.  Where  womanhood  isn’t just a concept,  it’s a responsibility . Not to anyone else, but  to   yourself : your peace, your growth, your life. I’m stepping into that woman fully. The one who decides what her life looks like, sets boundaries, and refuses to compromise on her well-being. And let me tell you… it’s messy. It’s ugly.  It’s the kind of growth that makes you feel like the old version of yourself is fighting with the new version, whispering, just stop,  stay comfortable, stay small . But the new version? She’s yelling back:  I want more, I deserve more, I’m not settling. 2024 was the turning point for me. The back-to-back hits, the real lessons, the wake-up calls, they forced me to confront where I was stuck, where I w...

  The Most Dangerous Lie is the One You Tell Yourself You’re  a leader.    Everyone sees you as  confident and bold . But when the door closes?  There’s this voice.  A silent editor checking every word, every move, every thought. That voice isn’t stopping you from acting… it’s stopping you from aiming where it actually matters.  And it’s fueled by one thing:  fear of rejection . This fear doesn't paralyze you; it’s more insidious than that. It allows you to function, even to excel, but only within a carefully defined,  mentally small  perimeter. You’re not being stopped from acting; you’re being stopped from truly aiming. The Hidden Trap of Being “Unrejectable” The fear of rejection, for people who project confidence, is less about avoiding an external "no" and more about preventing an internal sense of failure or shame. This creates a hidden tax on your mental life. 1. You shrink without knowing it • You chase safe wins you alrea...