She Rich Unfiltered

  Everybody’s talking about scaling, but nobody’s talking about how the old “$500–$2K hustle” is quietly burning people out mentally, emotionally, and financially. It’s not just about raising your prices either.  It’s about finally admitting you built your business from a place of survival, that you said yes to everything, and now you want out of that hamster wheel.  That version of business worked when you were just trying to get by. But it’s not built for peace, freedom of time, or long-term success. We’re past the era of “quick projects for quick cash.” People aren’t paying for just tasks to be completed anymore, they’re paying for transformation. And transformation takes time, structure, and boundaries. The same things most women entrepreneurs were never taught to hold. What Shifted  The Market Got Louder… and Tighter The economy’s tight. Attention spans are tighter. Clients aren’t gambling on “starter packages” anymore. They’re tired of trying ten different peop...

For a long time, I thought surrender meant letting life just happen to me. Being “a damsel in distress”… having “victim mindset”. Like if I stopped fighting, I was somehow giving up. But surrender isn’t about giving up, it’s about  getting out of God’s way. I constantly overthink every detail… I over analyze everything… how it would happen, when it would happen, who it would come through.  I’d pray for clarity, but then I’d try to write the script myself. And God kept humbling me.  Every time I tried to control the outcome, He’d reroute the whole plan until finally he made it clear. Surrender.  I kept seeing the word surrender for days, but eventually it clicked. I’m learning to stop forcing timing that isn’t mine. Letting go doesn’t make me weak. It makes me peaceful, because when you finally stop needing to know everything, you actually start to see everything clearer. Now I understand that surrender is discipline in disguise. It’s trusting that even when it doesn’...

  For the first time in months, I feel like  me  again. I finally got my spark back in business and it came from doing the one thing we were all taught to feel guilty for…  being selfish . Women, especially moms and recovering people-pleasers, are raised to feel like the world will stop spinning if we  stop saying yes . You spend years prioritizing everyone else’s needs… your kids, your clients, your friends and before you know it,  you  don’t even make your own list . That was me.  My mental was shot.  I was burnt out, irritated, and over it. Everything started to feel like a job, even the things I built out of passion. That’s how I knew I was in the danger zone.  When the work that used to excite you starts feeling like punishment, that’s not laziness. That’s your body saying “I’m done performing.” (P.s. it’s depression read about that — here .)  Then my cycle hit and forced me to sit TF down. It was rough, but that week in the ho...